200+ Kinky Honorifics and BDSM Pet Names (Free Download)

Looking for the right name to use in your dynamic? We made you a list—no gatekeeping, no guessing, no fluff.

Whether you're deep into your D/s roles or just starting to explore, having the right name can shift the entire vibe of a scene. From soft and affectionate to sharp and humiliating, honorifics help partners connect, communicate, and stay in role with just a word or two.

This blog breaks down real names used by Dominants, submissives, and Switches—plus a free downloadable list with over 200 options for your toy bag, contract binder, or digital note stash.

🖤 What Are Honorifics in BDSM?

Honorifics are names or titles used to show power, affection, authority, submission, or status in kink dynamics. They can be formal, playful, degrading, nurturing, primal—or all of the above.

You might already know a few (Sir, Pet, Daddy, Brat), but we dug deeper and included names from Reddit, community threads, scene stories, and even fantasy influences. Think of this list as inspiration, not instruction. For more on these fun kinky names check out this resource.

🧠 How to Use This List

• Pick one that feels good.
• Try it during a scene.
• Change it if it stops feeling right.
• Don’t overthink it.

These names are tools to enhance your dynamic—not boxes to squeeze yourself into.

200+ Kinky Honorifics by Role

For Dominants (Doms, Dommes & Gender-Neutral)

Names that command attention, hold authority, or drip with ritual power.

Examples:

• Alpha
• Captain
• Domina
• Headmaster
• Queen
• Master
• Pharaoh
• Tyrant
• Sir
• Keeper
• Matriarch
• Daddy / Mommy

See full list → here

For Submissives (Sweet, Depraved, & Everything In Between)

Pet names, humiliating labels, praise kink triggers—this section covers them all.

Examples:

• Good girl / Good boy
• Kitten
• Doll
• Worm
• Rope Bunny
• Bootlicker
• Princess
• Cumslut
• Pet
• Treasure

See full list → here

For Switches (You Contain Multitudes)

For those who love to give and receive. These names reflect adaptability, mood shifts, and playfulness.

Examples:

• Cerberus
• Rogue
• Trickster
• Puppeteer
• Phantom
• Mischief Maker
• Chaos Pixie
• Hellpuppy
• Sweetie
• Zephyr

See full list → here

📝 Want the Full List in One Place?

We made a free downloadable version of this honorifics list—sorted, alphabetized, and ready to print, save, or scribble on during your next dynamic meeting.

⬇️ Click here to get the ultimate honorifics list (Printable, fresh, and scene-friendly.)

💬 Got One We Missed?

Have a name that makes your knees weak—or makes someone else drop to theirs? Drop it in the comments. We’ll keep adding to this resource so it stays relevant, inclusive, and kink-positive.

❤️ From the Lovey Subby Team

We believe in building healthy, hot, and playful dynamics through connection. And sometimes, that starts with just one word. Whether you're a Rogue, a Pet, or a Matriarch, what matters most is that the name fits you.

Explore the names. Play with them. And never be afraid to rename yourself as you grow.